Friday, September 21, 2007

Oy

My online friends are fighting. There are names being called and accusations made and it's making me sad. I love my girls that are standing up for what they believe is right. I just wish it wasn't so ugly.

The Libra in me wants to see everyone's side and make everyone get along. But I don't want to get involved. I don't like to stir the pot, so to speak. Does that make me a coward for not sticking up for my friends, even though they are tough ladies that can handle themselves better than I could? Should I be joining in? And am I a bad friend for not doing so?

10 comments:

Andria and Co. said...

I went to a La Leche League meeting and came home to see this. Yikes. Wowza. But, things needed to be said, ya know?

Mom said...

Life is too short! The internet is a place for friendship and discussions. I have no idea what any of this is about, but I can tell you in the end everyone just wants a healthy, happy baby (and mom and dad). Amy, stay out of it and it will pass. None of these pregnant women (I assume they are all pregnant) should be stressing themselves this way.

Amy said...

No, they're not all pregnant. It has nothing to do with babies or families, really. It just so happens that that's how I know them.

Tiffany said...

I struggle with the same questions my friend.

pop-pop said...

Amy,

You are right to stay out of it,as I have seen quite a few time where the person that tries to help settle things the opponents make up and then they don't talk to the other person for butting in

Screaming Grasshopper said...

you've got to follow your gut instinct about it. you have to worry about yourself and the pressures and stress it would put on YOU to step in. good luck with the decision you have to make! :)

Josephine said...

Keep your sanity. :) And keep your stress level down, mama! Hope it passes soon without much fanfare. And I hope you're doing well, too!!

labugga said...

I find people rarely think less of you for doing or not doing what your heart tells you. I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I say save your worries for yourself and that turkey we're all dying to meet.

Girl said...

What's done is done. I am sorry you are worrying about it but no one should have to pick sides. Although I am not entirely sure of what you are talking about with ALL the drama, snort. I hope you and I are square.

JJ said...

you have to pick your battles. your baby can sense stress. this is not the time to let others' problems elevate your stress levels.

i say stay out. i get in trouble everytime i butt in.

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